the roller coaster of life

It’s been so nice to be home. I’ve spent the last few weeks spending time with my family, catching up with old friends (and their new babies!), soaking up the fresh ocean air, practicing yoga and celebrating my best friends wedding.

The excitement of all these things has been juxtaposed with the news that my closest Aunty has lung cancer.

I found this out the day I left Canada. I was checking my emails on the way to the airport and there it was, written in front of me, the three words no one ever wants to hear – I have cancer.

I couldn’t wait to get back home be with her and my family. The news made an already long journey seem extra extra long! I felt like I would never get home, such long flights, delays, sitting in transit at airports. . . But after nearly 2 days of travel, I finally touched down in Australia.

My auntie had been rushed to hospital the week prior with chest pains, thinking it may have been a heart attack, or angina. Thankfully her heart is great. What they did find however, were two growths on her lung. The test results from the biopsy then came back confirming our worst fear.

Like many of you, my family has lost too many people prematurely to this disease. I’ve shared before about how these kinds of events can shake you, and give you a new perspective on life – my post ‘clarity through loss’.

“At every point in the life cycle, we are vulnerable to the impact of unexpected events that tear off our mask, shake us out of our complacency and propel us into some serious thinking about what matters. People who have lived through life-changing events can often be heart to say, Why did it take a crisis to bring us to our sense? We always knew what was important, but we didnt act as if we knew.” Hugh Mackay

I’m in complete admiration at how my Aunty is handling the news. She has the bravery of a soldier, facing this challenge head on with such a great attitude. Sometimes with the Big C, our attitude is half the battle. Our mindset is so very important, and at times like this it becomes even more so.  It takes a certain courage and strength of will, to not just fall into an emotional heap. Not her. She is so pragmatic and positive – just getting on with living her life!

Experiencing this challenging time has really made me appreciate what’s important. After all, it’s the low points in life that often make us appreciate the highs.

Without darkness, we cannot know the light.