I had a spiritual reading this morning. Wow, this woman is a-mazing! I’ve been seeing her for years, and let me tell you – she has single handedly changed my life.
Big call I know. She has such a special gift; a connection to the spirit world, the divine, arch angels, past lives – who knows, but it’s something far bigger than you or I. When I first saw her I didn’t even believe in half of this, and trod extremely cautiously (and with a bucket load of salt), but over the years she has worked her magic, my walls have come down, and my mind has been cracked open to allow a whole new spiritual world to enter my life. I don’t know how she does what she does, and to be honest I don’t really care – because I’ve never felt so much insight, clarity and connection to myself as I have when in her sessions.
One of the things she spoke to me about today was making room for love. Not self love, or the love I receive from friends and family – but intimate, soul-mate, game-changing, romantic LOVE.
“Someday, someone will walk into your life and make your realise why it never worked with anyone else.” – Unknown
And when she said making room, she means literally. Clearing space, physically making way for love to enter my life. Setting the table for two, putting images up of two people embracing, having things in pairs around my house, taking dancing lessons and letting a man lead me across the floor (THAT one scares me!) . . .
It’s such a simple notion isn’t it, making way for things you want to enter into your life. Yet we’re not great at doing it! Stuck in a job we hate, complaining, defeated – not a great energy for our dream job to come knocking on our door. Or maybe you’re starting out on a diet, yet every time you open up the fridge or pantry you see the exact foods tempting you that you know you shouldn’t be eating. Or, like me, you have a goal to learn to surf, yet summer comes and departs and you haven’t even got your surfboard wet.
Why do we refuse to make way for the things we truly desire?
Is it just bad habits? Are we too busy? Are we not being conscious? OR, is it that we aren’t aware that we should be making way for these things? Do we think that our desires are just expected to hustle on into our lives, bursting onto the scene, elbowing anything in their way like a shop-a-holic on Boxing Day sales?
I know for me personally, that it wasn’t through lack of wanting, or lack of desire. I just had never realised the importance of clearing way spiritually, mentally and physically for my desires to enter my life. I just assumed that the man of my dreams would appear when the timing was right. Never mind the fact that I’ve been so busy working, studying, coaching, socialising with (female) friends – where in all of this is he supposed to enter exactly?
I’ve gotten super clear recently that having an amazing relationship is actually very important to me. When I close my eyes and see my 10 year vision, it’s full of this love I yearn for, and that love has created a beautiful family. Yet rewind back to the present day, I’m not focusing on it at all, I’m not actively doing anything to make this happen and bring this love into my life.
STEP #1: MAKE WAY FOR LOVE.
It’s time for the spotlight to be on ME. It’s ok to believe in love again.
What would you like to see enter your life, right now, this very minute?
How can you clear space to allow this desire to come to fruition?
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